WHOO HOO a pooping pupper is a better thing than an impacted pupper!!
And as for the leg pushing back thing- when they are sick or hurt, hope is really all we have, isn't it?
You have been very diligent in your research (and second, third and fifteenth opinions,) and you are the one who has known this day may come.
I understand the frustrations of not living in an urban area when it comes to vet care. Those who have easy access to a doggie MRI or doggy chiropractors, acupuncture, aquatherapy etc don't know how scary it is when you are out in the boondocks and most of our vets also do livestock. (no, really "Dr Black is out on a call right now, the prison farm has a heifer with a prolapsed uterus....he has on that reallllllllllly looooooooong glove and we're not sure when he'll be back")
SO- with that said, you love your baby, you are doing all you can for her and you've obviously done your homework. I'd be a mess, and you seem to be doing quite well. Looks to me like there is nothing you could have done, and the thing you CAN do is love that baby and take care of her even when unspeakable things fill (or ooze out of) her diaper!
Yolanda is, as you know, the Queen Of Wobbly Dogs and she will have a great deal of helpful advice (as will many of our experienced members) on the care, feeding, expressing and general servitude Miss Emmy Lou will need.
Looks to me like she has the most important thing- a Mommy who loves her, "in sickness and in health". :hearts:
to you my friend, and don't give up on that glimmer of hope. I know you'll keep a very close eye on her, and I hope she's on her way to fooling ALL those Drs, and you too, by making a full recovery!