I'll try to keep the story short and simple for now b/c I am rushing around today, because I lost a lot of sleep over this last night. Last night I went to check on Oscar because he has had some ear itching plus he had been licking his behind and I wanted to see if he was still doing it or if he had gone to sleep. I wanted to figure out whether it's anal gland express time and whether he feels okay! Oscar was in his bed under his 2 blankets. The incident happened very fast but I think (not sure) that he bit my hand and then growled and then bit into the air (hopefully missing on purpose). When I say that he bit my hand, he barely got me this time (there was once a bad bite 2 years ago). I have the tiniest little mark that is not very visible. However, this was not a play bite, he was pizzed at me. If the angle had been different, he might have given me a worse bite but I hope not. Anyway, I know about training and the things I am supposed to do to prevent a situation. I guess I should not have disrupted him in his bed but I wanted to check on him. Anyway, what I feel that I have not learned is what to do next when something happens. I pulled away out of obvious instinct. He seemed to calm down and I wanted to test him to see if he was still mad. But did I really want to pet him right after he bit me? I know people who would say to smack him. I didn't do that. I didn't raise my voice or act stern because I was shocked. I just feel that I had no idea what to do once an incident had happened. My husband took him into the kitchen and he slept there for the night, but that was after much deliberation and I doubt Oscar knows why. At any rate, he slept quietly and did not mind the kitchen. This happened only hours after my husband was telling me that he really thinks that Oscar will be okay to sleep in bed with the baby when the baby is about 4 or 5 years old. I had my childhood dog in bed with me but I don't think we can allow that with Oscar.
SO--the question is--what do you do after the dog has acted out? How do you handle it?