First of all, big hugs to both of you..... my heart goes out to you Rae - each day is different from the previous one at this point... all you can do is take one day at a time...and get through it, and rejoice in the fact that you have shared one more day with that precious girl.
My 2 cents on the poking and prodding - I would say yes - take her in and get the bloodwork done at least - so that you know what might be going on, and can know what to do to make her the most comfortable. And to me, that is the most important thing right now....comfort and lovies from mommy.
If she will eat de eggies and de chickie - give her de eggies and de chickie...with a side of cheese
Love you both, as we all do, and know how tough this time is for you. Duchie is basking in the glow of your love for her and the life you have given her. You GAVE her a life...truly.
Barb,Owned by Rudy Brandy-Angel Toby Mary Holly