Cesar Milan is just another macho male out to prove his virility in my opinion. While I'll concede that some people go WAY too far with the whole my dog is a baby thing (note I did NOT say is MY baby, cuz, well, they are ) and suddenly the dog's in charge, the very thought that dogs don't have personalities or need affection, and that ANY spoiling is bad, is part of the reason we see so much cruelty. His training methods verge on the cruel, IMHO.
As for the idiot woman saying that about you, Karen, she's obviously living in another world!! Stupid bitch