It is hard, Olga, . But I love that you're honouring her by letting her hang around as long as she wants to. Enjoy every single day with her. (BTW, how much water does she get with her food? When Heidi started failing, Laura suggested giving her a cup of water with her meals. So now she gets her 1/4 cup of kibble in a cup of water twice a day. It's totally turned it around, and kept her hydrated.) Just a thought. Sending a ton of and