She did ask me how they were all doing the last time I saw her, and I just replied "Fine." She knows that Heidi had the pancreatitis but because she's not open on the weekend thinks I got her sorted at emerg. It'll have to be discussed one of these days, but I'm just avoiding it for now. having said that, when the time comes for the girls to cross, I still would like it to be her that helps them over, if needed. Life is really not great right now, and having "the talk" with her is just one thing I can't add to the list right now.